about:

Alayna brings the warmth and wisdom of a mom carrying a fresh tray of cookies, Ashley brings the practical advice but chaotic nature of a dad telling inappropriate jokes during the PTA meeting. And Mak plays the baby; she is curious, in the process of figuring everything out, and making a ton of mistakes in a good way. If Ashley and Alayna represent the advice you might get from a parent, Mak is more like your big sister.

Together we are your Chosen Family.

Each week one of us will bring a question or topic to be discussed at our “dinner table”. Then, we invite YOU to our meal by submitting your own questions to be discussed via instagram.

Ashley Gavin

Ashley Gavin is a stand up comedian based in New York City. She’s been featured on Netflix is a Joke, Hulu, Comedy Central, but is best known for her viral crowd work videos on TikTok.

Ashley is admired for her confidence, authenticity, and unrelenting energy on stage. She is the only angry lesbian beloved by all, including old, straight, white guys. If you don’t believe it, she was Carnival Cruiseline’s first openly gay comedian. She exploded on the internet showcasing her rare ability to authentically engage and improvise with guests on her podcasts and audience members while on stage.

Alayna Joy

Alayna Joy is a cat-loving LGBT+ YouTube content creator from Canada. She’s been making videos in various bedrooms, wearing various cat shirts, for her channel (originally “MissFenderr”) since 2012. She brings her frank and funny perspectives to a wide range of topics, including mental health, sexuality, and veganism. When she’s not creating videos, Alayna is speaking about Mindfulness, Self-Compassion, and sexuality in schools and clinics across North America, as she is a trained Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher.

Mak Ingemi

Mak Ingemi is a LGBTQ+ Tik Tok and youtube star making content around fashion advice, to sketch comedy, to vlogging about her lived experiences as a lesbian in the conservative midwest.